Ella Bastone, LCSW

Psychotherapy Services in Alameda, CA

“If you would grow to your best self
Be patient, not demanding
Accepting, not condemning
Nurturing, not withholding

Self-marveling, not belittling
Gently guiding, not pushing and punishing
For you are more sensitive than you know
Mankind is as tough as war yet delicate as flowers
We can endure agonies but we open fully only to warmth and light”

-Daniel F. Mead

Approach

You are here because you have a sense that life could be different and maybe it could be better. I believe that relationships where we feel deeply seen and understood can be transformative and begin with acceptance. I approach therapy with the intention to co-create a space where we can explore how your past and early life experiences have shaped you and your experience of the present. My educational background in social justice and Gender and Women’s Studies is foundational to my practice and I will incorporate my understanding of systems and socio-political contexts into our work together to understand how these factors have also influenced your identity and sense of self.

I was led to this work because of my own desire for truth and self-understanding and to answer the question: “Why am I the way I am?" My life experiences allow me to connect deeply with people and find pieces of my own story in others.

I employ various modalities using a psychodynamic and trauma-focused framework and modify my approach as I get to know you so I can best guide your self-exploration. My hope is to establish a space that feels safe and nurturing enough that we can allow the darkest parts of you a chance to be heard, seen, and explored with curiosity and genuine care.

" ‘You're not a monster,’ I said. But I lied. What I really wanted to say was that a monster is not such a terrible thing to be." - Ocean Vuong

Education

B.A. Gender and Women’s Studies, UC Berkeley

Master of Social Work (MSW), SF State

Coalition for Clinical Social Work, Foundations Course, San Francisco Center for Psychoanalysis

Experience

I have worked with the SF State Guardian Scholars Program since 2018 providing clinical services to people with experience growing up in the foster care system and currently serve as the Program Coordinator.

In 2023, after becoming a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), I additionally began seeing clients for therapy services.

Most recently, I have been teaching courses for the SF State Master of Social Work (MSW) program and providing supervision to both graduate-level students and Associate Clinical Social Workers (ASW).

  • My primary experience has been supporting teens and young adults through various life transitions, identity exploration, and living with complex trauma and grief. I have a specific interest in working with high-school aged teens, recent college graduates, people with experience in the foster care system, and queer folks. If any of these sound like pieces of your life story, we may be a good fit to work together and I hope you consider reaching out to me.

  • If you are interested in scheduling a free 15-30 minute consultation, please send me an email today at ellajbastone@gmail.com or reach me at, 518-952-0890.

  • My standard rate is $150/hour and I am not currently accepting clients using insurance. I do believe in accessible mental health care and hold space for sliding scale clients. Please contact me directly to discuss sliding scale options.

I currently provide psychotherapy services in California and am able to meet virtually and in-person on Tuesday and Thursday evenings and Saturdays. My office is located in Alameda, CA.

My Services